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My name is Joseph Tito, I’m a film and television producer that has traveled the world. Last year I decided to become a single father, it hasn’t been easy but the journey has well been worth it. From Jet-Setter to Fatherhood and everything in between, this is my journey. A journey of a single gay man becoming a father of twins!

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From Jet-Setter to Fatherhood. My surrogacy journey to becoming a single dad of twins. #singledad | #speaker | #contentcreator info@thedaddiaries.com

It’s great to know I can make a positive impact

It’s great to know I can make a positive impact just through my choice of coffee. That’s why my favourite brew for my morning cup is McCafé 100% Ethically Sourced Premium Roast Coffee. It’s rich, smooth, delicious, and best of all it’s ethically sourced. Well, maybe the best of all is that I can enjoy a cup right at home. I use the Keurig K-Cup pods, but you can make drip, too. With @mccafecanada, I’m happy to share that this September, we can all feel good knowing that $1 of every purchase of McCafé 100% Ethically Sourced Premium Roast Coffee packs will go towards Ronald McDonald House Charities Canada (@rmhccanada) in support of families with sick children. Will you join me in sharing a little warmth and comfort from our home to theirs? See the link in my bio to buy packs of McCafé 100% Ethically Sourced Premium Roast Coffee and give back with your next cup of coffee at home. #ad #mccafe #mccafecanada #keepingfamiliesclose #coffeelover #rmhccanada

Embrace the times we're staying home and get creat

Embrace the times we're staying home and get creative with an at-home indoor paint project. For those of you that have been following along, you know that I've started renovations on my new home. #Sponsored.

When @canadiantire reached out to me about their new Premier paint line, Ready To Roll, I jumped on the opportunity. With an easy to open, pour, and seal packaging and 14 beautiful pre-mixed colours to choose from, this collaboration was a no brainer. The Ready to Roll paint line comes pre-mixed and offers a new and better way to paint with its innovative packaging in a bag and convenient shipping via Ship to Home. No waiting in line; get it delivered to your home. Check out my stories for more product details and see the colours I chose for the house and the girls' room. #PaintWithPREMIER #painting #homedecor #stayhomestaysafe #diy #homereno #becreative #thedaddiaries

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💲Giveaway Alert!!! 💲Your voice matters! I'd

💲Giveaway Alert!!! 💲Your voice matters! I'd like to invite you to use yours to support your favorite small business--the one you wish more people knew about because you love it so much. Thanks to @visaca , we can use the hashtag #MySmallBizReco to help grow the conversation for our favorite recommendations #Ad Every recommendation for a small business can make a big difference. Here's mine: I want to support and raise awareness for this hidden gem @royal_h_botanicals. These products are made with love by a single mamma for her own tiny babe. They're 100% organic, vegan, ethical--and edible! You have seen how my girls put everything in their mouths, so nontoxic creams and serums are a must. I began using Royal H Botanicals on my girls when they were newborns, and I quickly started using the creams myself. Now, these products are a Tito family must have forever. I encourage you to try these fantastic, all-natural products and see why @royal_h_botanicals is #MySmallBizReco.

To enter the giveaway for 2 gift cards valued at $100 each, leave a comment using the hashtag #MySmallBizReco and tag a small business. The giveaway is for Canadian residents only, excluding Quebec and is in no way affiliated with Instagram. No purchase necessary to enter. The winner will be chosen at random and notified via DM.
The giveaway ends on Sept 11 at noon, and chances of winning depend on the number of entries. Good luck!

21 months!! I can't believe where the time has gon

21 months!! I can't believe where the time has gone. They are now at the age where I can have a conversation with them, and although they may not understand everything, they begin to babble back. I love this stage, tantrums and all.
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I can’t begin to imagine the connection and love

I can’t begin to imagine the connection and love that twins have. Being together right from the start and never apart, it’s like nothing can break their bond. Even thou I see my girls get annoyed and irritated with one another (and making it very loudly known they feel so), they are always looking for one another. Last night I separated them during bath time so they wouldn’t fight over the same toy. They spent the whole time asking me where the other was. This makes my heart melt. I’m so grateful they will always have each other, Inshallah.
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Those of you who have been following me know that

Those of you who have been following me know that I love pizza!! [AD] So when @panago_pizza contacted me, I was super excited to try them out and I have to say, they did not disappoint! Right now, they have a variety of summer deals, like the Lawn Picnic, Backyard Fun, and the Garden Chill Combo. The girls and I wanted to have some backyard fun, so guess which one I chose? They loved it! But don't take my word for it. Check out my stories to see how they couldn't get enough of the yummy pizza and, as they called the chicken bites, the “balls.” ⚽️🐓Give them a go, you won't be disappointed. We’re going to have more Backyard Fun! Let me know what you try. #Panago
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There is a little local cafe in King City @kingroo

There is a little local cafe in King City @kingroostcafe that I absolutely love. Here’s a viral challenge that doesn’t require ice or a bucket—just your red-hot passion for small Canadian businesses that you want to support. As we continue phased re-openings, let’s support our favorite small businesses after the challenges they’ve had to endure these past months. I’m partnering up with @visaca to encourage you all to use the hashtag #MySmallBizReco to create some heat and attention to grow the conversation for our favorite recommendations. Every recommendation for a small business can make a big difference. Our small businesses need our help now more than ever. Let’s help by getting the word out. There’s never been a better time to check out small businesses —locally and nationally. Your turn! Recommend a small business you love and let us know what makes them so great using #MySmallBizReco.

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#ad ##SmallBusinesses #ShopLocal #SmallBiz #SmallBusinesses #supportsmallbusiness #supportlocal #handmade#shopsmallbusiness #buylocal #localbusiness #supportlocalbusiness #eatlocal #staysafe

I always thought that by the time I was 35, I woul

I always thought that by the time I was 35, I would be happily married with a baby, having the house on the hills with the white picket fence. Well, that didn't quite pan out. Now at 40, I find myself with twins and working toward that house on the hills. Life has a funny way of unfolding, and sometimes no matter how much you try to plan, you have to let go and trust God. Today I will focus on letting go and trusting the process. Because in the end, everything happens for a reason. Right?
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Seeing the word through their eyes. How many thing

Seeing the word through their eyes. How many things do we take for granted? How many things do we pass everyday without realizing just how beautiful they are? I am so grateful to see a whole new world through their beautiful eyes.
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Online grocery home delivery made easy! During the

Online grocery home delivery made easy! During these times, everyone has done online grocery orders, but not quite like this. I don't know about you guys, but every time I've ordered groceries, it's taken from 3 days or up to even a week and a half to get the delivery, but with @voila.ca, it took less than 24 hours. The whole shopping experience was super simple. What I especially love is that Voilà by Sobeys delivers straight from their warehouse - not a store. As well, the food is packed by robots, which means minimal human contact from the packing process to doorstep delivery. Their delivery teammate was super friendly, knowledgeable, and followed strict safety protocols. I loved the whole experience; I would definitely recommend trying it out. Click the link in my bio to place your order and check out my stories to learn more about #VoilaBySobeys [Ad]
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Sometimes it just takes a smile. Happy Sunday. #th

Sometimes it just takes a smile. Happy Sunday. #thedaddiaries #smile #happybaby #lifeisgood

I hear over and over, "Wow, I don't know how you d

I hear over and over, "Wow, I don't know how you do it." Honestly, as the father of twin toddlers, there are days when I have no freaking clue either. And yet somehow I manage to keep my girls loved and fed and alive so…yay for me! Twin parents are doubly blessed, but with quadruple the stress, especially during the constantly evolving baby and toddler years. While the rewards of raising twins far outweigh the challenges, it's still a really tough job, one that requires quick-thinking, deep-breathing, and just your typical everyday superpowers. So how do we badass parents manage to wrangle two-at-a-time? Well, to start, we do what we have to do. All of those mindful parenting philosophies and brain-development studies are great in theory. If I had one kid, I'd totally take the time to patiently explain why we don't run after our sister with a screwdriver. At the end of the day, we do what we can, and no book can tell us how to do it.
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#raisingtoddlers #twinparent #twinsofinstagram #doubletrouble #raisingwarriors #titotwins #thedaddiairies #singledad #twindad #parentsofmultiples #toddlers

☀️☀️GETAWAY GIVEAWAY☀️☀️ Last week

☀️☀️GETAWAY GIVEAWAY☀️☀️
Last week I had the pleasure of going to Northumberland Heights Wellness Retreat and Spa. Remember the last time you took a deep breath in while on vacation? You probably felt rejuvenated, refreshed and oh so relaxed. That, my friend, is mental clarity. Think about how much stress you deal with every single day. With all that has been happening in the world, a small getaway was exactly what I needed. It has been proven time and again that people who take occasional time away from their day-to-day lives are happier overall. And you deserve to be happy. Check out my youtube video (link in bio) and enter for a chance to win a free one night stay at Northumberland Heights Wellness Retreat and Spa.

Here's how to enter:
1. Follow @nheightsretreatspa
2. View video on youtube (link in bio)
3. Comment and tag 2 friends that need this.

Trust me; you want to win this! Good luck, the winner will be announced my Instagram story.
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Gyms are re-opening, but is it safe to go back? No

Gyms are re-opening, but is it safe to go back? Norwegian gymgoers may have some good news for us. A study on the risk of coronavirus transmission in Oslo found that people who went to a gym were no more likely to get infected or sick than people who didn’t. They found no increase in COVID infections among gymgoers who regularly washed their hands and followed social distancing measures. Regular exercise is crucial to physical and mental well-being. Not everyone is motivated enough to work out at home, and self-isolation can lead to depression, leading to inactivity. So now that gyms are re-opening, how do you feel about going back?
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#gymlife #mentalhealth #wellbeing #selfcare #selflove #motivation #thedaddiaries #lifeduringcovid #safetyfirst #menshealth #gym #workingout #staysafe

It's crazy how many things my little ladies teach

It's crazy how many things my little ladies teach me daily. One that I always tend to forget is to stop and smell the flowers. I spend my days doing a million-and-one things, always thinking about what I need to do next. I sometimes forget to live in the now. So starting today, I too will stop and smell the flowers. I invite you to choose the moments of today along with me. No worries about the past or the “next,” just the now. Who’s with me?!🌼
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Stella and Mia baked a cake!! Well, sort of... Tha

Stella and Mia baked a cake!! Well, sort of... Thanks to @thelazybakerinc, I had a great time baking this Funfetti cake with the girls. It was super easy, with pre-measured cake ingredients delivered right to my door. We got the experience of baking from scratch with the simplicity of baking from a box. The girls were really into it, and the end result was priceless. When they started feeding each other, my heart melted. They always see nonna in the kitchen, so when it was time for them to start mixing, they got right in there. And with the pre-measured ingredients, there is no waste and easy cleanup. Thank you @thelazybakerinc for this experience. We will definitely be making more cakes. What are some things you love baking with your kids?
@Shine_Influencers #ShineOnSmallBiz

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Your eyes do not deceive. The Tito’s are wearing

Your eyes do not deceive. The Tito’s are wearing onesies that are not red boxer plaid. Why? Let me explain. My most important job, the one that will last me the rest of my life and never lose its ranking as “most important,” is to teach my girls—how to walk, talk, laugh, cry, count, spell, say please and thank you, be kind, find strength in vulnerability, etc. I also want to teach them the importance of being comfortable in your own skin—inside and out. These onesies help with this lesson on many levels: Comfort, Personal Style, and Esteem building--because there's no shame in a onesie! We go out in public with ours with our heads held high, and we are comfy and happy. See? The most important lessons can start with simple foundations that grow and solidify over time. This thought helps me stay calm when I think of all the lessons to come. What are some of the simple foundations you are building on with your children?

Rompers by: @smashtess
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There’s no debate when you look at the latest ev

There’s no debate when you look at the latest evidence. A diet centered on plenty of whole, minimally processed, plant-based foods is beneficial for our overall health. But what if you love meat? #sponsored

Turns out, there is a compromise! When @mapleleaffoods reached out about their new Maple Leaf 50/50 products, I was excited to try them. The line comes with four main products Burger, Sausage, Breakfast Sausage and Grounds. Given that both my mom and dad (ok and me, too) should be eating less meat, I liked that these burgers are made with 50% less beef: 50% premium beef -50% plant-based and natural ingredients. They also happen to be gluten-free.

I have to admit they were good. Didn’t feel like a compromise at all! My dad didn’t even realize it was half plant-based. And Nonna Stella gives it two thumbs up! It has earned its place on our grocery list. Stay healthy means a lot these days—but here’s a “new norm” I am happy to get behind. Try it and let me know what you think.
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#MapleLeaf5050 #plantbased #wellness #plantpower #instafood #plantpowered #plantbasedfood #healthyeating #healthyliving #eatclean #yummy

Dating apps have taken the world by storm, but has

Dating apps have taken the world by storm, but has the trend for swiping right or left to like or reject potential matches contributed to many people's unhappiness and low self-esteem? Especially during the pandemic, I did what many people do - I turned to dating apps to find love. But the constant swiping and the stream of small-talk, meaningless conversations that soon fizzle out leave me feeling dejected.
Dating apps have definitely increased my anxiety. It fuels the idea of a disposable society where people can match, date once, and not give it much effort. But where do you look for someone if not on apps? How does a 40-year-old with two toddlers find someone?

Clothing by: @smashtess
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I won't always cry, Daddy, when you leave the room

I won't always cry, Daddy, when you leave the room, and my supermarket tantrums will end soon.
I won't always wake, Daddy, for cuddles through the night, and one day you will miss, having a chocolate face to wipe.
You won't always wake to find my foot is kicking you out of bed, or find me sideways on your pillow where you want to lay your head.
You won't always have to carry me in asleep from the car. Or piggyback me down the road when my little legs can't walk that far.
So cherish every cuddle, remember them all. One day Daddy, I won't be this small.
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