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My name is Joseph Tito, I’m a film and television producer that has traveled the world. Last year I decided to become a single father, it hasn’t been easy but the journey has well been worth it. From Jet-Setter to Fatherhood and everything in between, this is my journey. A journey of a single gay man becoming a father of twins!

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From Jet-Setter to Fatherhood. My life with my twins. #twindad | #speaker | #contentcreator info@thedaddiaries.com

It's no secret that I looooove my Nutella! This mo

It's no secret that I looooove my Nutella! This month, I love it even more! @NutellaCA announced its partnership with Food Banks Canada (FBC) to help bring 200,000 breakfasts to Canadian families in need this holiday season. You can help too. When you buy a jar of Nutella marked 'Buy a Jar, Give a Breakfast,' you'll be helping spread a little joy to families in need. [sponsored] #NutellaGivesBack

And just like that, my babies turn two. I can't b

And just like that, my babies turn two. I can't believe how fast it's gone by. It seems like only yesterday I was in a tuk-tuk, heart racing, going to see them for the first time—all the adventures we've already had. When you're going through it, especially the sleepless nights, it seems like it will never end. But then you wake up and realize you've done it, you've gone through it, and you're off to another milestone. Happy Birthday, baby girls! I will always give you all my love; keep you safe, and try my best always to make your heart smile.
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🌱🌱GIVEAWAY ALERT🌱🌱 To thank you guys,

🌱🌱GIVEAWAY ALERT🌱🌱 To thank you guys, for being a fantastic source of support, I want to give you something back. I've been using these CBD products, and trust me, this working father of twins loves them. The Blend oil is not comparable to anything on the market. I've been less anxious, my sleep quality has dramatically improved, and my focus has been on point, especially during this crazy holiday season. I've teamed up with the maker of the Blend @theholistichealthgenius, and we are giving away four products.

The Blend CBD- Genuine full-spectrum CBD with 60+ terpenes and 8 drivers.

The Blend Restore - magnesium chloride infused with CBD, terpenes and essential oils, turns bath time into something magical, refreshing and zen.

The Blend Soothe- medicated healing balm for all things skin! Moisturizing, hydrating and healing (eczema, psoriasis, dry skin etc.)

The Blend Magic- topical pain oil that will magically take away pain and tension!

I know the holiday season can be stressful, so why not help relieve that with these great products. All you have to do to enter is follow Lesley (@theholistichealthgenius), tag two squirrel friends and tell me why you need these products. For extra points, share the reason in your stories and tag us!!!

The results are in! I've been wearing my custom or

The results are in! I've been wearing my custom orthotics for over two weeks now, and let me tell you, my lower back feels fantastic. Training at F45 can be intense at times, with a lot of jumping and hopping. There would be times when at the end of a full week of training, my lower back would feel it. But not with my orthotics. They've given me extra support for my feet and are helping correct the balance issues I had. It only took a week to get used to them, and now I love them. I highly recommend going to see a Canadian Certified Pedorthist (@Pedorthic_Canada). I didn't think I need to, but I'm glad I did. Custom orthotics are an investment that pays your body back exponentially over time.
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When you ask parents what they want for their kids

When you ask parents what they want for their kids, what's usually the most common reply? They want their children to be happy.

I've recently read an article in Time Magazine, "How to Raise Happy Kids: 10 Steps Backed by Science." What I got from it made sense and was a little scary at the same time. The first step to happier kids is, ironically, a little bit selfish - Get Happy Yourself!

Extensive research has established a substantial link between parents who feel depressed and "negative outcomes" in their children, such as acting out and other behaviour problems. Parental depression actually seems to cause behavioural problems in kids; it also makes our parenting less effective. Now there's tons of info on raising smart kids and successful kids, but how do you raise happy kids?
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#happiness #love #life #happy #motivation #instagood #selflove #inspiration #positivevibes #believe #loveyourself #success #smile #positivity #mindset #gethappy #thedaddiaries #titotwins

#Sponsored I've always been pretty good with my m

#Sponsored I've always been pretty good with my money. I know more or less what I have, in which account and how much I generally can spend. Once the twins got into the picture, it was a different story. Things got a little tricky. With RRSPs, TFSAs, RESPs, insurance, mortgage, childcare and taxes... I started losing a bit of control. So when @RBC reached out about collaborating with the MyAdvisor program, I jumped at the opportunity.

#RBCMyAdvisor is a simple concept for the digital age. This free service makes it possible for me to see all my accounts in one place, regardless of the financial institution they're with. With one click, I know exactly where everything is and where it's going. Oh, and the best part, you can check in at your convenience with an advisor in-person, through live video or phone and together, you create a digital, personalized plan that suits your lifestyle. You determine your life goals (retiring at 55!!); then these are converted into financial goals.

As a working dad of twins, I need all the help I can get – believe me! By allowing me to instantly access all my accounts digitally – and call on the personal advice of an advisor – #RBCMyAdvisor has been invaluable in bringing my finances back under control again. Check out the link in my bio to get started on building your personal plan!

What I'd love to see all the time is the tremendou

What I'd love to see all the time is the tremendous love they have for each other. The reality is they spend the majority of the day fighting. I don't know how to make it stop. When I separate them, they ask for each other. They search for each other. But then fighting begins again. I try to distract, draw attention elsewhere. Good for a few minutes, but then BAM 💥 someone is getting swatted or yanked. How do you make a toddler understand? #toddlerlife #dadlife #twinsofinstagram #sisterlove

My thought process was all over the place. Natural

My thought process was all over the place. Naturally, I focused on the “worst case” outcome. I ruminated over my decision for days, but my bottom line was this: How could I not help protect my girls from diseases that are vaccine-preventable by keeping their vaccinations up to date?

So, off to our pediatrician we went to get the girls their infant vaccinations. The doctor shared with me that the COVID-19 pandemic has shown a decline in the number of children around the world receiving their immunizations. I totally understood why, because my thinking had gone there.

Parent to parent, I want to support and encourage you to stay on schedule with your children’s vaccinations. Don’t disrupt healthcare decisions for your little ones. Your pediatrician has safety protocols in place to keep you all protected.

Link in bio for more from Health Canada on why infant vaccination is just as important as ever. #Sponsored #PfizerCanadaPartner

And just like that I turn 41!! 😩😩 . . . . .

And just like that I turn 41!! 😩😩
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For those who don’t know, the donor eggs I chose

For those who don’t know, the donor eggs I chose for the girls were Indian. It’s essential for me to teach my girls about every culture. To love and respect everyone, no matter their sexual orientation, religious or spiritual beliefs, skin colour, or other things that may not be like them. So today, we wish everyone a Happy Diwali. May your light shine bright!!
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For all you working parents out there, you know th

For all you working parents out there, you know that sometimes there is not enough time in a day to make anything from scratch. That's why when @swisschaletgrocery reached out about trying their new line of soups; I was excited to try them. The soups come in 3 different flavours and are available in all major grocery stores in Ontario. The girls give it two thumbs up, which is a must in the Tito household. Do you want to give it a try? Check out my link in bio and enter their contest for a chance to win a $500 grocery gift card or 1-year supply of Swiss Chalet soups. Good luck! [sponsored]
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Growing up in a very traditional Italian family, I

Growing up in a very traditional Italian family, I always thought I'd meet someone, get married and have children. Well, things didn't exactly go that way for me. After the girls were born, I thought it would be tough to meet someone. I already had many boxes that the other person needed to check, and with two babies in the picture, those boxes became almost impossible to fill. Well, three months ago, it all changed. With just one swipe, I met my match. It's funny it hasn't been that long, but I couldn't imagine my life without him. I've never met anyone so selfless, putting not just me first but Stella and Mia. It all happened so naturally without thought. Well, this is us, no more #singledad of twins. This is our new family, and I thank God every day. #lovemakesafamily
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My custom orthotics are here! Boy, the things we l

My custom orthotics are here! Boy, the things we look forward to when we age!! With gyms reopening soon, I'm excited to try my new orthotics. I've always had slight lower back pain, especially when working out but never thought anything of it. After visiting with a Canadian Certified Pedorthist (@Pedorthic_Canada), I realized that my shoes cause the majority of my back pain. Canadian Certified Pedorthists are foot orthotic and footwear experts who ensure you are wearing the appropriate support and shoes specific to you. They took measurements of my feet and made custom orthotics to insert in a lot of my sneakers. I'm excited to try them out and let you all know how I feel. If you have pain in your feet, legs, knees, hips or back, a Canadian Certified Pedorthist can help you maintain your healthy, active lifestyle. Click the link in bio to find a clinic near you.
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With the renos done, the girls and I are settling

With the renos done, the girls and I are settling into our new nest nicely. It’s quite different not having several sets of eyes keeping watch over my two little birds, though—a real eye-opener (couldn’t help myself hahaha) in that I can’t just pick up my phone and surf for information anytime I want. My attention has to stay focused on them, obviously. Thankfully, Google Nest Audio has a built-in Google Assistant. I can watch the girls and just say “Hey Google” to get useful info about the weather, news, or whatever I want. I can even play my favourite music directly from my phone using Bluetooth without having to touch, click, or scroll. I’m sure when the girls get older, I’ll be making use of family-friendly features, including parental controls and downtime mode to help us disconnect from our tech during dinner, bedtime or any special occasions! . I’m so pleased with the Google Nest Audio. @BestBuyCanada really does have the best selection of the latest and greatest tech. Check it out online at bestbuy.ca. [AD]

As you guys know, since the beginning, I've been a

As you guys know, since the beginning, I've been a @pamperscanada dad. They are always working to make life a little easier for us parents. My girls were born premature, so this campaign really hit home. I remember the girls being so small, weighing only 4 and 5 pounds. I was terrified of the first diaper change. My hands were shaking. I was so scared that I would hurt them. The diapers almost reached their neck. In honour of Prematurity Awareness Month this November, Pampers is donating 200,000 diapers to Canadian families via the Canadian Premature Babies Foundation (CPBF). This is where I need your help - you can support preemie families across Canada too. In November and December, every time you use hashtag #PampersForPreemies, Pampers will donate one diaper to the CPBF. I want to know your experience when your baby was born, and don't forget to use the hashtag #PampersForPreemies. #ad

You might have cheek creases because of all those

You might have cheek creases because of all those summers you spent underneath the sun. Maybe you have crows feet because you spent so much of your time laughing and being in a great mood. Stress lines could be there because of all the times you worried about your future and all the hours you stayed up planning and working to fulfill those dreams. Yes, the lines on your face tell your story. But a little pick me up never hurt anyone.

As you can see from my before and after, I don't look plastic; I can still move my face; my skin just looks a couple of years younger. I was really impressed with @trevorbornmd. My biggest fear when getting botox is looking fake, but Dr. Born knew precisely what to do. I can go on and on about how great I feel, but the pictures speak for themselves. Swipe 👉🏼to see results.
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I miss summer, but I’m finding the chill of autu

I miss summer, but I’m finding the chill of autumn to be a wonderful time to cozy up and enjoy family time. When we're cuddled up, the last thing I want to do is have to get up to adjust the volume because I forgot the remote on the table across the room. Unfortunately, that happens a bit too often. (Seriously. Baby Shark. They won’t let me turn it off, but can I please turn it down a bit to keep my sanity!?!?) I knew I’d find a solution at @bestbuycanada because it has the best selection of the latest and greatest tech. I decided to try the Google Nest Audio. It is really helping out this single daddy shark! Do you know the Nest Audio? It’s awesome. It’s like having your own personal assistant. You can control it with your voice, the Google Home app, or on the display. Now, I just say “Hey Google, turn down the TV volume," take a deep breath in, and let my heart fill as I look at my beautiful girls enjoying every sharky verse. You can go to bestbuy.ca to get Google Nest Audio for your own homey nest do-do-do-do-do-do. [AD]

Head, shoulders, knees and toes! I don't know abou

Head, shoulders, knees and toes! I don't know about you, but this 40-year-old papa is starting to feel the weight of 2 toddlers. I have slowly started to feel more back pain, more knee pain, and my recovery isn't what it used to be. When @Pedorthic_Canada reached out to me, I never thought they might be just the answer I was looking for. Canadian Certified Pedorthists are foot orthotic and footwear experts who ensure you are wearing the appropriate support and shoes specific to you. I learned all about what shoes I should be wearing and why I should not wear most of the ones I own. If you have pain in your feet, legs, knees, hips or back, a Canadian Certified Pedorthist can help you maintain your healthy, active lifestyle and keep you feeling great. I ordered a pair of custom foot orthotics; I'll keep you up to date on how I feel when I get them. #pedorthictreatment #pedorthics #sponsored

When there's a heightened risk of illness around e

When there's a heightened risk of illness around every corner, even the most rational decisions we make as parents get second guessed.

My protective judgment was really tested a few months ago when I had to decide whether or not to bring them to their pediatrician for their infant vaccinations. Thinking about all those other families that had walked through the doors, sat in the waiting room, been in the exam room…yeah, I had a little freak out thinking about it.

But I concluded that the importance of staying on schedule with their vaccinations was more beneficial for my girls than the fear of taking them to the pediatrician’s office. Despite all my fears, I felt we were really, really, safe during our visit.

Infant immunizations are an essential service during COVID-19. There’s a reason for that. It’s really important to complete your children’s full immunization schedules—on schedule! And don’t waste time worrying as I did. Your pediatrician has safety protocols in place to keep you and your children protected. #Sponsored #pfizercanadapartner

Things change when you become a parent; I went fr

Things change when you become a parent; I went from a sexy vampire to a ketchup bottle. 🤷🏻‍♂️ But I don't mind. I love Halloween, but this year things are looking a bit different. I still, very much, would like to keep Halloween alive, but I'm not sure what I can do. What are some things you'll be doing with your family? Happy Halloween from our family to yours!
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As you guys know, fitness has always been importan

As you guys know, fitness has always been important to me. You've seen from my fitness challenges that it takes hard work to be healthy and in shape. When I first found out about #emsculpt from @trevorbornmd, I was excited to try it. The clinic, located on Avenue Road, is stunning. The staff was accommodating and knowledgable and took away any fear I had. I was a little scared on my first treatment but quickly realized there was no pain. EMSCULPT is a revolutionary new body sculpting procedure that lifts and tones without the use of surgery. The process is entirely non-invasive; it builds muscle and reducing unwanted fat at the same time. I loved my experience with Dr. Born, and I'm excited to try more treatments. Overall, I give emsculpt two thumbs up; I've already started seeing a difference after two treatments. I have two more to go. Look out for my stories coming soon for the before and after.
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