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My name is Joseph Tito, I’m a film and television producer that has traveled the world. Last year I decided to become a single father, it hasn’t been easy but the journey has well been worth it. From Jet-Setter to Fatherhood and everything in between, this is my journey. A journey of a single gay man becoming a father of twins!

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From Jet-Setter to Fatherhood. My life with my twins. 🌈👨‍👧‍👧 #singledad | #contentcreator | #speaker info@thedaddiaries.com

I'm lucky my girls aren’t quite old enough for s

I'm lucky my girls aren’t quite old enough for school just yet, but I know for many parents, balancing working from home with supervising their children’s online learning has been incredibly challenging 😫😫. Well, here is something that will make your life a little easier. Microsoft 365 Education is the total package for virtual learning, performing optimally on Windows 10 devices; it includes Word, Excel, PowerPoint, Teams, Minecraft: Education Edition, PLUS additional classroom tools. Microsoft 365 Education is FREE to download for most students, all you need is a school email address.

The girls and I are loving Microsoft 365 Education as it not only enhances their learning right now, but I can also leverage it as they grow. Combined with our Surface Laptop Go which is affordable, lightweight, has a touchscreen and an HD camera, we’re equipped with the perfect tools for virtual learning and after-school homework/down-time.

@microsoftcanada wants you to share your experience with life going virtual for the chance to win a special surprise 😉. Write your experience below. 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼.

#Sponsored #MySurface #lifemadeeasy #virtuallearning

New Childcare Benefits. I had a chance to sit down

New Childcare Benefits. I had a chance to sit down with @debschulte.kv, MP for King―Vaughan to chat about the incredible investments #Budget2021 makes in childcare. The cost of childcare is huge. Parents shouldn't have to choose between staying at home to care for their children or going to work. This year's federal budget invests $30 billion to help parents who are struggling to afford childcare be able to get back to work. I really enjoyed our conversation and look forward to seeing what this investment will do for families.

#childcare #affordablechildcare #liberal #singleparent #singledad

Mother's Day. It's a little bit of a weird subject

Mother's Day. It's a little bit of a weird subject in our household. Although we are celebrating Nonna's Day, I can't help but feel a little sad for the girls during this day. I know that they are loved beyond anything and although they are still too young to understand, what will they think once they do? I wanted to thank #modernbeauty magazine for featuring me in their Mom Chronicles issue and @billiechiasson for capturing the joy I feel while parenting. Read the full article, link in bio, or pick up a copy. And to all the caregivers out there, Happy Mother's Day.
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#mothersday #lovemakesafamily #parenting #moms #mommymakerover #specialissue #beauty #lifestyle #editorial #iamdad #gaydads

I'm sure we've all seen the beautiful window displ

I'm sure we've all seen the beautiful window displays that continue to show up in all our neighbourhoods throughout the pandemic, demonstrating community strength and positivity. @doordash_ca would like to provide a way for customers to thank delivery drivers in a time where contactless delivery does not allow for proper appreciation. To thank our Dashers, they've created downloadable colouring pages to express gratitude during the current third wave of lockdown in Ontario. Let's show that we are grateful for food delivery services and download your colouring pages today and don't forget to display them in your windows. We are all in this together; let's put a smile on someone's face. Check out my stories for a downloadable link. #ad #thankyoudasher #supportlocal #weareallinthistogether.

If you're a working parent like me, you know that

If you're a working parent like me, you know that dinner time can be crazy. With two toddlers running around, getting into everything - if I can find something easy to make without much prep time, I'm all over it. When @swisschaletca reached out about trying their ready-to-eat, refrigerated Chicken Pot Pies, I was all over it. You pop them in the oven at 375°C for 25min, and voila!! The girls love it, and papa loves all the time I save, time that I can spend playing with my little monkeys. This easy dinner solution lets you focus on 'family time' without compromising on the classic Swiss Chalet flavours you know and love. Now available at most grocery stores in the deli section. Let me know what you think.
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#ad #easydinnersolutions #familytime #cravingmoretime #lifewithtoddlers #singledad #singleparents

This is your reminder that loving yourself is a jo

This is your reminder that loving yourself is a journey; take it one day at a time.
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The COVID-19 pandemic has changed how we do virtua

The COVID-19 pandemic has changed how we do virtually everything. I have been lucky that the girls are still so small and hope they won’t remember certain memories from this phase of life. But how has their perception of people changed considering they only see strangers with masks?

To capture history, the Royal Ontario Museum is opening a first of its kind crowd-sourced exhibition depicting life throughout this time, as told through the eyes of kids and teens. Up until June 27th, the ROM is calling on those between the ages of 4-18 to share their original works of art that capture their personal experience living through the pandemic. This can be any form of creative expression, including a song, painting, video or even a TikTok!

For a chance to have your kid’s artwork featured in the upcoming exhibition this fall, upload it on social media with the hashtag #MyPandemicStory and tag @ROMToronto OR submit your artwork directly on the ROM website at rom.on.ca/MyPandemicStory .
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🏳️‍🌈 Finally, a step in the right direct

🏳️‍🌈 Finally, a step in the right direction!! 🏳️‍🌈

If you have kids, you probably know or heard of @misspersonashow. Miss Persona is a 2x Daytime Emmy nominated series about a girl with a big imagination. She encounters tricky problems and dilemmas, which she solves using dress-up role-playing. Well, this season, we meet Miss Persona's Mom and her fiancé Lorna played by Queer Comedy icon Elvira Kurt. Yes, her mom is a lesbian!! I can't tell you how happy this makes me.

This weekend they are having two pride episodes. The first features their wedding when Mom and Lorna get married, and later we have Brandon Bear's first pride parade. I don't need to tell you the importance of exposing your children to the real world, where some of their friends might have two moms, two dads or, in my case, one dad. Support the LGBTQ2+ community and watch Miss Persona's Pride episodes on Treehouse (April 17 & April 18) at 11:45 AM EST. .
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#lovemakesafamily #loveislove #gaydads #lgbtq #lgbtrights #lgbtfamily #lgbtqpride #lgbtqsupport #titotwins #thedaddiairies #gaypride #transgender #lgbtpride #lgbtqia #nonbinary #gayman #gaylove #sponsored

What I've learned most about parenting is to alway

What I've learned most about parenting is to always look at the world through the eyes of a child. Somehow, we need to cling to optimism. We need to always look for the silver lining. Always look for the best in people. See the wonder in the simplest things. Never stop dreaming and believe that anything is possible.

Photo by: @alannabphotography
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#eyesofachild #livefortoday #titotwins #thedaddiaries #singledad #lifewithtoddlers #gaydads #lovemakesafamily #neverstopdreaming #parentinglife

Let everything you do be done in love. From the th

Let everything you do be done in love. From the three of us, we wish you a Happy Easter. And remember, there are always flowers for those who want to see them.

Photo by: @alannabphotography

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#easter #happyeaster #easterbunny #eastereggs #love #spring #stayhome #eastersunday #bunny #pasqua #family #chocolate #easterdecor #lovemakesafamily #gaydads #singledad #singlegaydad

You guys know that I've been working out like craz

You guys know that I've been working out like crazy, not just for my physical appearance but my mental health as well. Now that I feel better, I want to look my best and feel as comfortable as possible. @lululemon has me covered for everything I need, not just for working out but with my active toddler-fueled life. Their train gear is super-fast drying, which allows you to focus on your goal rather than being distracted by heat or sweat. Their casual gear is super comfortable and lets you look good even if you work from home. I’m totally loving the ABC Jogger, they’re tight in all the right places, super stretchy and I can wear them to the gym or out to dinner. Check out my link in bio for some of my favourites. #ad #thesweatlife #mensfitness #fitnessgoals #movement

Lorex 2k Wire-Free System. Before the girls, I wou

Lorex 2k Wire-Free System. Before the girls, I would go to sleep with my front door unlocked. Now I'm triple-checking. I knew it was time to get myself a home security system, but the thought of more work to the house, installing wires, made me drag my feet. When @lorex.technology reached out about the Lorex 2K Wire-Free System, I knew this was a perfect fit. With no wires to run, I'm getting full home security coverage without clutter or difficulty accessing hard-to-reach power outlets. The whole system was up and running in minutes. Wireless and compact, the Home Hub has a sleek design and provides the freedom to install up to 6 cameras indoors and outdoors. I got one outside, and one I move where needed, from the girls' room to their play area. You download the Lorex Home App, and you have full coverage right from your phone. Honestly, I'm not a DIY type of guy, but I installed the system in 10 min, and now I can sleep with ease knowing I can look on my phone when I hear a bump in the night. #sponsored #lorex #lorextechnology #security #homesecurity #homesecuritysolutions #homesecuritysystem #wirefree #wirefreecamera #wirefreesystem #2Kwirefree

HELP!!! I got myself a curly Sue, and I don't know

HELP!!! I got myself a curly Sue, and I don't know anything about curly hair. I've always had straight hair; straight hair is manageable! Mia got my hair, and with her, it's super easy, wash, dry and brush it out. But Stella is curly, and I don't know what to do. What products do I use? If I brush out her hair, it drys frizzy. I've tried not to brush it after her bath, but then it just looks a mess. So to all my curly hair followers, what do I do? Help a daddy out!
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💪🏼💪🏼GIVEAWAY💪🏼💪🏼. Join me

💪🏼💪🏼GIVEAWAY💪🏼💪🏼. Join me for the next @f45_training_jefferson 45-day challenge.

1. Comment on this post
2. Like, share, eat it up
3. Follow @thedaddiaries.ca and @f45_training_jefferson
4. Tag some of your peeps that need an ass-kicking!

The next challenge starts March 29th - May 12th. Even if you don't win, come workout with me. Let's challenge each other!
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What's behind that smile? Everyone sees who I app

What's behind that smile?

Everyone sees who I appear to be. Although you only see what I choose to show. There's so much behind this smile. I find faking a smile is the most painful lie, but it's the most effective way to hide from all the questions. It wasn't until I had the girls that my anxiety started. I thought to myself, this too shall pass; I'm strong, I can deal with this on my own. I didn't think I needed help. But as time passed, it started getting worst. Then I began to realize that my anxiety was being absorbed by my girls. And that's when I knew I needed to get help. I thought people that needed help were weak. I was ashamed to admit that maybe I needed it. At the beginning of this month, I made one of the best decisions of my life; I started talking to someone. I look forward to healing myself, my mind and my heart. Thank you, to all the people that have reached out. Yes, I am going through shit, but I know I will come out stronger.
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The girls love cherries but try finding them in th

The girls love cherries but try finding them in the dead of winter can be a bit tricky. When @delmontecanada reached out about trying their Very Cherry line, I was curious to see what the girls thought. Well, it's a hit! I love that Del Monte reformulated their line with 100% fruit juice, and the girls get their vitamins all year round from fruits we can only find occasionally. I also love it for myself to get the fibres and vitamins I need with my on-the-go life. Their convenient formats make it easy for you to take anywhere. If you're like me and work all day, you'll be happy to have these fruit cups stocked in your pantry. I'm pleased to say the Very Cherry line is #titotwins approved. #DelMonTeam #goodnesseveryday #ad

Even with WFH life, we still have to look our best

Even with WFH life, we still have to look our best – if only for the Zoom calls! I don’t know about you, but when my hair isn’t looking its best, my confidence takes a hit. But no more, cause now I’ve got a great solution! The @Headandshoulders Classic Clean collection restores the scalp’s natural moisture and nourishes three layers deep to prevent dryness, flakes and itch with regular use. I love its clean, fresh scent and how it keeps my hair flake-free and looking gorgeous. With all the worrying I do as a full-time working parent, the last thing I want to worry about is my hair. Visit the link in my bio to try it, your scalp will thank me later 😉 #ad #ScalpCare #FlakeFreeConfidence

“A girl should be two things: who and what she w

“A girl should be two things: who and what she wants.” - Coco Chanel
Happy #internationalwomensday to all the amazing women out there. Thank you for giving role models to my girls.
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#motivation #love #inspiration #life #quotes #lifestyle #instagood #success #motivationalquotes #goals #believe #positivevibes #mindset #happy #happiness #selflove #loveyourself #fitnessmotivation #inspirationalquotes

And here we are into March; it's been over a year

And here we are into March; it's been over a year since things were normal. This year has forced me to dig deep into myself, trying to understand what makes me happy. I've learned that nothing and no one can make you happy. Happiness comes from within. Yeah, yeah, we've all heard that before, but when we truly understand that, we can begin making ourselves happy. I'm not there yet, but I'm working on it. All I can do is take it a day at a time and learn from my mistakes so that I can be a better version of myself, which intern will make me happy. Some days, I feel like giving up, like most of us, I'm sure. But then, some days, I feel that I can do it, and it's those days I have to hold on to. You can spend your time wishing for a better life, but you should spend your time working on one. Happy Sunday, friends.
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Since becoming a dad, sleeping-in is no longer a c

Since becoming a dad, sleeping-in is no longer a concept I understand. I'm up at the crack of dawn, trying to get everything ready before the girls get up. When they get up - let's just say mornings are hectic in our household at the best of times—sometimes having breakfast ready is precisely what is needed. With My McD's App, it's super easy to pre-order our favourite @McDonaldsCanada breakfast. I can't get enough of their Sausage and Egg McMuffins with freshly cracked eggs and their 100% ethically-sourced Arabica coffee (@McCafeCanada). The girls love their hotcakes, and that little toy in their Happy Meal always puts a smile on their faces. What are your McDonalds breakfast favourites? #breakfasthack #McCafe #TeamMcDs #partner #McDonaldsCanada

A SUV Suitable for Twins. Shopping for a new car w

A SUV Suitable for Twins. Shopping for a new car with twins isn't as easy as it looks. That's why when I found the @mercedesbenzcanada GLB 250, it was love at first sight. I wanted something sexy to fit my lifestyle, and I found just that. This black-on-black model with red leather interior was precisely what this daddy needed. The 2021 GLB 250 comes with an optional 3rd row and scores extremely high for safety. If you're looking for a smaller SUV that'll save you on gas but need that extra room, I highly recommend checking it out.
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